Friday, April 13, 2018

TRH- How it all started



My blog kinda lives in www.thereadinghouse.ph, (tipid sa domain payment 😜) so I think it's just right to write about it (TRH). The Reading House is a Literacy Center that helps kids with learning disabilities/ difficulties especially in reading. It's also a dream come true for me. 

Years back,  Ive had the chance to teach children with Learning Disabilities, particularly kids with Dyslexia.  Dyslexia is a neurological condition that makes it hard for a person to read.  I learned a lot about Learning Disability and Dyslexia. I learned not just the methodologies, theories, studies and strategies on how to teach them, but I also learned what they say about teaching, that it comes from the heart. When you meet these kids talagang you'll adore them. Some of the conversations I had with them are better than I had with some adults. It is through them that I learn what being a teacher truly is. Naks! Pero, these realizations came late na to me. It was my first job ever, so I'm kind of in my walwal days pa. All the appreciation came when I taught in different learning set-ups.

Anyway... I worked as a Reading Clinician. So like what the name suggests, we provide clinical assistance in Reading.  I liked this job, not only was I a teacher, I was also around a lot of books, everyday! This is when I started dreaming of my own. I wished to have my own center that could help these kids! 🙏

The Reading Clinic is a one on one set up, being young and restless (Chos!), I wanted to try something different, something that's "bigger", in short classroom teacher ang bet ko. That was when I decided to teach in an exclusive school for boys. Taught Grade 3 English for 3 years. English, Language pa rin, di ko keri ng history, science and lalong lalo na Math! While teaching in a traditional school, I slowly arrived at a realization that I am not a traditional school teacher. It wasnt for me. I didnt like the pressure that it gives on the kids. I didn't like that kids are becoming grade conscious! But, that's just me. I know that some parents/ teachers will disagree with me, "kids need pressure cause the real word is full of pressure". K. As a teacher/ parent, I believe that kids has to enjoy going to school. Kids has to look forward to going to school, genuine, from the heart excitement, not just because they'll meet new friends, but because learning is fun. That's the school that will produce responsible, concerned, socially aware and genuinely kind citizens. I think. After, being in a traditional school, I then entered a progressive school, less structure, more student-centered and well thought off learning experiences. Refreshing experience coming from a traditional school.

That is where I also started my family. Got married and had my baby girl. When we started living together, my husband got the chance to see how a life true blue teacher works. He was so annoyed and bothered by the fact that teachers take home work. Teachers go to school early to work. Teachers work everyday and anywhere. So, he asked me to resign. I was pregnant then so I didnt protest. I wouldnt mind staying with my baby 24/7. This time of rest (from a decade of teaching) gave me a lot of time to reflect, this is when I told my husband I wanted to push thru with my own Reading Clinic. After some scouting, tons of research, reconnaissance, budgeting, arguments... The Reading House, our 2nd baby. was born!






Sunday, March 11, 2018

First Ever Blog Post


Hello, Internet world!


I have been thinking of starting my own blog  since I became a mom (2016 lang naman), figured, why don’t I share my journey with others then, them back. But, as we all know being a mom takes a lot of your time. 2017 went by really quick. I had to juggle being a breastfeeding mom (who’s super super lazy to pump, so I had to take T all the time with me) and putting up our 2nd baby, The Reading House! (Shameless Plugging: Check out our website,too ;p)


Anywho…what’s important is the now! This 2018, I plan to wear as many hats as I can!


As a teacher, I used “Must Do’s and May Do’s” to teach my kids the power of prioritizing. As a woman (who lives in such a judgmental society), set to have many roles, I find this helpful in life, too.

Check out my list!


Must Dos (Push ko toh!)
  • Put up a Reading Clinic that will help kids who has Learning Needs
  • Become an imperfect Mom who’ll make everything up along the way
  • Be the type of boss that I wished to have when I was still working 
  • Have a partner that is hands on and helpful 
  • Start a blog (AND MAINTAIN IT!)
  • Build a 100/ 500/ 1000 piece jigsaw puzzle 
  • Arrive at my ideal weight without spending a single cent on gym membership
  • Teach T house chores and self care tasks during her toddler years 
  • Learn the art of bento making 
  • Be good at Photoshop 
  • Run  5km - I do, almost everyday but I wanna make it "official" like do it in an organized event 
  • Run 10km
  • Run 21km
  • Run a full marathon- 42km 
  • Run in any of the major marathons of the world
  • Perfect a dish that people would want to request me to cook  
  • Adopt a community where TRH can help kids to learn how to read and impart the love for reading



May Dos
  • Take up sewing
  • Take up knitting 
  • Learn calligraphy 

* Finished
* Working on it
* Haven't done yet 
This is an incomplete list because I am a work in progress. It is also NOT also in chronological order because my brain’s all over most of the time. (Ask my husband, he knows).


I am D. I am a teacher, a Mom, a wife, a daughter, a sister, a friend, a leader, an entrepreneur, a grammar nazzi,an advocate of equal opportunities for child learning or equality, in general, a bibliophile, an aspirant runner, a recent convert skincare junkie, a sweet tooth, a junk food junkie, a tattoo lover and now a blogger! I have a potty mouth and speak a little Bekinese. I believe in hard work. I know that nothing great comes easy.


Join me as I check off/ add on/ remove (hopefully not) items on my list with the hopes of making my daughter, husband and of course myself happy and proud!


See you around!


TRH- How it all started

My blog kinda lives in www.thereadinghouse.ph , (tipid sa domain payment 😜) so I think it's just right to write about it (TRH). The ...